My letter is probably too nice as it stands, but I did say that I have "major reservations" about her and "cannot wholeheartedly recommend her to this program."
There are 2 reasons I didn't say no outright (which in retrospect I probably should have)
- She is already a pain in the ass, if I refuse to do this for her she'll probably become even more of one.
- She showed up with another student who also asked for a rec and who I will give a good one, so it felt weird to say no to one and yes to the other that publicly.
*Edit 9 AM* After writing this, I decided that I needed to point out her excessive tardiness and not turning in major assignments, and the only nice thing I said was that maybe this job could help turn her around. Ok this rec is now worthless. I don't really know what to do here. I guess I can just tell her I really didn't have much nice to say and face the consequences in class. Only 1.5 months left anyways!
*Edit 10:26 AM* She hasn't asked for the rec yet, maybe she won't want it or remember.
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